Breaking the Silence: How to Talk Periods with Your Kids

Remember the first time you got your period? The confusion, the fear, the embarrassment – it's an experience many of us share. But it doesn't have to be that way for the next generation. Don’t we all wish that our period was introduced better? As parents, it's our responsibility to break the cycle of silence and empower our children with knowledge and understanding about menstruation. So, how do we tackle this sensitive topic? Here are some tips to guide you through the conversation:

First & foremost, include everyone 

Attention all parents of boys – this convo isn't just for the ladies! Boys need to understand what periods are too, so they can be supportive and empathetic to their friends, sisters, and future partners. Plus, it's a great way to break down gender stereotypes and promote equality from an early age.

Timing Is Key - Start Early

Like, really early. Initiating discussions about periods shouldn't wait until the onset of puberty. Ideally, start laying the groundwork for these conversations around the age of 7 or 8. At this stage, children are naturally curious, making it easier to introduce topics surrounding bodily changes and reproductive health. Trust us, it'll make the big talk way less intimidating later on.

Starting the Conversation

Children are curious beings, and they'll likely come across information about periods through various channels – school, media, or even peer discussions. Instead of shying away from their questions, take them as opportunities to start an open dialogue. Whether it's a question about pads or the concept of menstruation itself, approach the conversation with patience and honesty.

Educate with Empathy

Focus on the basics, like what causes periods, how often they occur, and what to expect. Be honest & keep it real. Encourage questions and address any fears or concerns your child may have along the way.

Hands-On Learning

Sometimes, words alone may not be sufficient to convey the details of menstruation. Consider including interactive activities to help your child visualize the process. For example, create a "period kit" with your child using everyday household items. Gather items like a red paint, a small container of water, a sponge, and a pad. Add red paint to the water.

Explain to your child that the red water represents menstrual blood, and the container of water represents the uterus. Have them dip the sponge into the water.

Next, show them how the uterus lining sheds during menstruation to expel the blood. Have them squeeze the sponge over the pad, demonstrating how blood flows out of the uterus and into a pad. 

This hands-on activity allows your child to visualize the process of menstruation, making it easier for them to understand and ask questions. It's a fun and interactive way to educate them about their bodies and empower them with knowledge about menstruation.

Embrace Menstrual Products

Introduce your child to menstrual products early on to explain their usage.  Instead of shrugging off the questions or answering vaguely, tell them what the products are for when they get curious & ask. Take them along when purchasing supplies and discuss the different options available, from pads to tampons and menstrual cups.Empower your child to make informed choices about what works best for them and make them confident in managing their periods.

Normalize Period Talk

Above all, create an environment where discussions about periods are normalized and free of shame. Encourage open communication within the family, ensuring that your child feels supported and understood. By equipping them with knowledge and resources, you empower them to navigate menstruation with confidence and dignity.

In nutshell

Breaking the taboo surrounding periods starts with open and honest conversations at home. By proactively discussing menstruation with your children and providing them with the necessary information and support, you empower them to embrace this natural aspect of life with confidence and grace. So, let's break the silence, educate our kids, and ensure that they embark on their journey into womanhood fully equipped and empowered. After all, knowledge is power, and it's time to empower the next generation.